Chapter Nine:
Life Support:
What is the
point? You are just hanging on. You and your partner are not happy. You either
fight or not talk to either other. What happened? What went wrong? When did the
love die? This isn’t you. This wasn’t supposed to be you. What happened?
But you won’t
let go? Why is that? You clearly aren’t happy. Why not just leave? You have many
reasons, or rather, excuses why. Obligation. Pity. Fear of being alone. You are
just hanging on for the hell of it. Your partner knows it. Everyone around you
knows it. You even know it and wish that you didn’t. But you can’t let go. Why
can’t someone from the outside pull you out? Would that even work? Would even
you or your partner listen?
This is not
healthy. You know that. So why? It does not have to be like this. You know this.
Do you deny it? Do you wish it wasn’t so? This is not healthy. No words are
getting to you or your partner. Your relationship is in a coma and on life
support. There is no hope for it. It’s brain dead, a shell. Just do yourselves a
favor and pull the plug. You both will be much happier for it.
I apologize for
bringing you all down like this. My final observation will lighten the mood. I
hope.
Examples of Life
Support Relationships:
Zeus and Hera
Charlotte and
her ex
Clint and Vicki